There are always 2 forces acting at any time.

An action and a reaction

A positive and a negative

A push and a pull

When we judge the same thing happens.. 2 polarities are created.. eg

Pride and shame

Infatuation and resentment

Happy and sad

War and peace

True balance is being able to see the 2 sides and not being sucked into either polarity.

The universe will maintain balance of these 2 polarities at all times in our lives and in every moment.
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